0:00, (Searching...), Radio Tuner, Radio edit, N/A, 20:05, Lonely Boy, The Black Keys, Radio edit, N/A, 3:10, I'm Free, Gramatik, Radio edit, N/A, 7:30, Dear Jill, Blodwyn Pig, Radio edit, N/A, 12:42, Heroes, David & David, Radio edit, N/A, 15:46, Into the Black, Chromatics, Radio edit, N/A, 20:53, Fragments of Hope, Mokhov, Radio edit, N/A, 24:49, Know My Name (Mark Pritchard Mix), Nightmares on Wa Radio edit, N/A, 28:51, Chicken Shake, Stereo MCs, Radio edit, N/A, 31:29, Chord (BC radio edit), Sweetback, Radio edit, N/A, 33:10, Can I Get a Witness, Sofa Surfers, Radio edit, N/A, 36:36, Higher Ground, Weekend Players, Radio edit, N/...
0:00, (Searching...), Radio Tuner, Radio edit, N/A, 20:05, Lonely Boy, The Black Keys, Radio edit, N/A, 3:10, I'm Free, Gramatik, Radio edit, N/A, 7:30, Dear Jill, Blodwyn Pig, Radio edit, N/A, 12:42, Heroes, David & David, Radio edit, N/A, 15:46, Into the Black, Chromatics, Radio edit, N/A, 20:53, Fragments of Hope, Mokhov, Radio edit, N/A, 24:49, Know My Name (Mark Pritchard Mix), Nightmares on Wa Radio edit, N/A, 28:51, Chicken Shake, Stereo MCs, Radio edit, N/A, 31:29, Chord (BC radio edit), Sweetback, Radio edit, N/A, 33:10, Can I Get a Witness, Sofa Surfers, Radio edit, N/A, 36:36, Higher Ground, Weekend Players, Radio edit, N/A, 41:55, Listen (The Deadbeats Remix), Innereyefull, Radio edit, N/A, 45:25, Burokunburossamu, The Warheads, Radio edit, N/A, 49:11, I Know My Babe, Federico Baltimore, Radio edit, N/A, 54:20, The Same Deep Water as Me, I Am Kloot, Radio edit, N/A, , 58:20, Need Someone, Mary J. Blige, Radio edit, N/A,
You're all alone -- are you lonely or are you free? It's hard to do the right thing -- are you going to bail or stick around and be a hero? I'm giving you options here, so pay attention; these opportunities don't come every day. You know the song: You’re nobody til somebody loves you - just another way of saying that it’s easier to believe in your own worth when it’s validated for you by another, and the form of validation we most desire is to be loved, the ultimate seal of approval.
So when I field a set of songs about the loneliness that precedes finding your own love, especially when that set concludes with the incomparable Mary J. Blige stating her fundamental truth about the necessity of accepting love from another, trust me when I say I understand. To tweak a famous Eartha Kitt comment, I've been loved and I've been lonely, and being loved is better -- though sometimes only having been lonely can make you truly appreciate it.